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  • Impeccable Honesty

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    By Rabbi Naftoly Bier

    In Chapter 32:1, the Torah introduces us to the discussion between Moshe Rabeinu, משה רבינו , and the tribes of Gad and Reuvain in the following manner: ומקנה רב היה לבני ראובן“ , And to the sons of Reuvain…” The question is, why does the Torah introduce the section with a “vav”, “and”; there must be a connection to the preceding chapter. Moreso, why didn’t they come immediately after the conquest of the lands they seeked as it took place earlier as we learned at the end of chapter 21?

    The Alshich HaKodesh explains that only at this juncture after the spoils of war from the war against Midian were divided, did the tribes of Gad an Reuvain approach Moshe Rabeinu to allow them to settle on the eastern side of the Jordan River. For at this point the number of their cattle became so large that they felt that it would be impossible to have enough grazing pasture on the western side of the river.

    It is possible there is a subtle message also being taught. When we study/learn chapter 31:25-54, we are startled at how much the Torah elaborates, detailing the spoils of war with Midian exactly how much each group received. We could have done the math ourselves! And what difference does it make exactly how many sheep, donkeys, cattle, etc. there were? Furthermore, why were Moshe Rabeinu, Elazar HaKohen, and ראשי אבות העדה involved in the counting and distribution; designate a group of cattle merchants to do this tedious, mundane task?

    The Ramban 31:36 answers that the Torah is relating a miracle that despite the time it took to divide the spoils not one animal died.

    In פ‘ חיי שרה , the Medrash asks why is it that the Torah spends “so much space” to relate the purchase of the מערת המכפלה , the burial place of the patriarchs and matriarchs (and אדם וחוה , Adam and Eve), whereas so many mitzvos are only a couple of words? “How many quills are broken, how much ink is spilled!”

    The Medrash, בראשית רבה נח:ח , answers to teach us כל שהוא מברר מקחו של צדיק כאילו מקיים את העשרת הדברות (כולה (שנאמר בני חת עשרה פעמי

    Whoever clarifies a sale to a righteous person (every blade of grass, every bush, rock is specifically designated to the rightful owner) is analagous to observing the עשרת הדברות , the Ten Utterances (Commandments). This being inferred from the fact that the sellers, the “children of חת , Cheis” are repeated ten times.

    The fundamental, unequivocal foundation of all of positivity in עבודת ה‘י , life, is the absolute adherence to integrity and honesty. If one conducts oneself in such a manner, it is the segue to all of Torah, for the most honest questions are, where do I come from and what is the purpose of my creation?

    When one divides 675,500 sheep, it is an arduous task. To do it correctly demands that one ascertain the worth of every sheep; it depending on the health, weight, and milk production. Yes, it would be expedient to just say to one another, “Well, we are getting it for free anyway, let’s just divide it in half without all the bother.”

    The Torah emphatically teaches that’s not proper; one has to be absolutely honest and tedious in the division for every person wants to fairly gain the same as another. This idea of integrity is so fundamental that the leaders of Klal Yisroel were appointed by Hashem, in order to inculcate Klal Yisroel with this monumental message. The miracle (Ramban) took place as a testimony to their impeccable honesty.

    The juxtaposition of the request of tribes of Gad and Reuvain can be understood in the following manner: Recognizing the essentiality of אמת , “truth” as the founding principle of all of Torah, they selflessly offered to not cross the Jordan River, in order to establish a paradigm for absolute honesty in business dealings. Being the owners of large herds of cattle necessitated adequate grazing lands, which they asserted can only be on the eastern side of the Jordan River.

    Moshe Rabeinu perceived flaws in their intentions and reasoning. Though outwardly it seemed very selfless and spiritual on their part, they were lacking in perfection of not having any emotional, intellectual, or financial bias in their arguments.

    A formidable challenge in our daily living is to relentlessly question ourselves if our actions are pure. The Torah teaches us that if we conduct ourselves in our financial affairs with consummate integrity, we will be developing an ability to truly accomplish genuine objectivity in all of one’s actions. Rav Yaakov M’Lisa in his commentary on שיר השירים , Song of Songs, 3:2 explains that שלמה המלך teaches us that if Hashem would find an individual who is perfectly honest, He would bring Moshiach due to this achievement!

  • Parshas Pinchas

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    By Rabbi Shloimie Lindenbaum

    הנני נותן לו את בריתי שלום (פרק כה פסוק יב)

    Hashem promises His covenant of peace as renumeration for Pinchas’s zealousness in avenging His honor. The מדרש comments that it was proper and befitting for Pinchas to receive a reward for his good deed. Why did this action specifically deserve a reward more than any other מצוה? The בעל שואל ומשיב explains that the general rule is that reward for מצוות is not given in this world. The רשב”א explains the reason, that one who performs a מצוה is testifying to the existence of Hashem and it is forbidden to take payment in exchange for עדות (testimony). The רמ”א (חו”מ סי’ פג) qualifies that the real issue of taking payment for testimony is only when the payment obligates one to testify. If, however, he is not required to testify because of the payment, for example if he is paid to witness the action even without testifying, then he would be permitted to testify afterwards. Therefore, by all מצוות it makes sense to not get rewarded for doing the מצוה, as this would be tantamount to receiving payment for an עדות. By Pinchas, though, he was not technically required to kill the sinners because it was considered a הלכה ואין מורין כן (a law that we do not tell people to do without their own initiative). Therefore, he would be allowed to take payment for this מצוה and it would not ruin his testimony to Hashem’s existence.

    יפקד ה’…איש על העדה אשר יצא לפניהם וכו’ (פרק כז פסוק טז-יז)

    Moshe beseeches Hashem to appoint a new leader for the Jewish people, someone who can lead after Moshe passes on. He continues to describe the qualities that should exist in the next leader- אשר יצא לפניהם ואשר יבוא לפניהם” (who shall go out before them and shall come in before them). R’ Eliyahu Lopian asks, why did Moshe need to tell Hashem what He should look for in a leader- of course Hashem knows what the Jewish people need? He answers that Rashi says that Moshe truly wanted one of his sons to replace him. Moshe was aware of his own inner desire and was nervous that he wouldn’t be able to clearly see if his sons were a good fit for the job. He was afraid that if he davens strongly enough that it should be his son then Hashem will listen to his תפלה. Therefore, Moshe asked Hashem to appoint a leader who is befitting for the Jews, and although he wants it to be his son, the priority should be that it will be the person who is most fit for the job.

  • Leadership

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    By Rabbi Naftoly Bier

    In שמות ו: כ”ה it states:”…ואלעזר בן אהרן לקח לו מבנות פוטיאל לו לאשה ותלד לו את פינחס”

    “And Ahron’s son Elazar took as his wife one of Putiel’s daughters, and she bore him Pinchos…”

    The רמב”ן, Nachmanides questions, why does the Torah mention Putiel- we don’t know who he
    is; consequently; what difference does it make if we know his name?

    The Ramban answers; herein lies the reason as to why Pinchos, פינחס was the person to bring
    שלום, harmony between Hashem and Klal Yisroel, by killing the prince of the tribe of שמעון, זמרי
    בן סלוא and the Moabite princess, כזבי בת צור. For this courageous, determined, selfless act, he
    was rewarded by Hashem to be a כהן; and not only him but all his descendants eternally.

    The name פוטיאל is a ‘title’ that describes the greatness of the ancestors from whom Pinchos
    inherited the ‘spiritual genes’ to sanctify Hashem’s name, even earning Hashem’s covenant of
    harmony. Most opinions are that he was blessed with eternal life; he being אליהו הנביא, Elijah the
    Prophet, who never died.

    Pinchos was a descendant of Yosef HaTzadik, יוסף הצדיק, who overcame the difficult test of
    resisting the seductive advancements of the wife of Potiphar. Pituel, the word פיתו meaning
    seduction, יוסף overcame it. A sign of one’s ability to selflessly conduct themselves with dignity
    and nobility; Hashem being in their mind and ‘view’ constantly. Leadership is only sincere, true,
    and real if one possesses the innate or acquired ability to have unadulterated control of one’s
    desires and passions, totally focusing on the needs of his constituency.

    He was also a descendant of יתרו, Jethro, the father-in-law of Moshe Rabeinu. Here the name
    פוטיאל connotes the idea that he fattened cows to sacrifice to every idol that existed. יתרו was an
    unequivocal, seeker of the true manner to worship The Almighty. He diligently, with great
    sacrifice and dedication brought the choicest animals as sacrifices, testing if he felt a true sincere
    connection to whichever idol he was worshipping. He was a paragon of honesty, integrity, and a
    researcher of the undeniable truth.

    These two traits; the ability to have complete control over oneself, pursuing what is proper and
    the undiluted, absolute quest for veracity were the attributes that enabled פנחס to become the
    ‘giant’ he is, the leader of Klal Yisroel.

    Moshe Rabeinu, after being told by Hashem that he won’t enter Eretz Yisroel, asks Hashem to
    appoint a leader, one who can absorb the personality of each and every person.

    The כלי יקר, authored by Rav Shlomo Ephraim Luntschitz (1550-1690) who was the Rabbi of
    Prague from 1604-1619, after serving as the Rosh Yeshiva in the yeshiva in Lvov, teaches us a
    fascinating, profound lesson.

    In דברים יא:י-יב, Deuteronomy, 11:10-12, it states: “For the land that you are about to enter and
    possess is not like the land of Egypt from which you have come. There the grain had to be sowed
    by your own labors (irrigation ditches from the Nile River). The land you will enter… is a land…
    which soaks up its water from the rains of heaven. It’s a land which Hashem always keeps an eye
    on throughout the year.”

    The כלי יקר explains based on his understanding of the ילקוט שמוני that the
    Torah is admonishing us to be vigilant to give a share of one’s crops in Eretz Yisroel- notably
    חלה. To give a portion of dough and תרומה, the first portion of grain to the כהן, the priest.

    Though these amounts of gifts that are given to the כהן are minimal, they are only required in
    Eretz Yisroel. Why? For outside the land, a farmer’s labor is much more extensive due to the
    lack of the natural feeder-rain showering on the field, (and even if there is rain, it doesn’t rain at
    the same exact time as it was when we abided to keep all the Mitzvos).

    Since one has to expend intense labor in one’s fields; the Torah did not obligate one to give
    תרומות ומעשרות to the כהן ולוי, for it isn’t proper for one who has strained, struggled, and sweated
    to produce one’s crop to give it to another who didn’t exert any effort. In Eretz Yisroel, despite
    the need to seed, plow, and harvest, nevertheless, our partner, Hashem provides the rain in its
    ‘right time.’ Therefore, our Partner demands us to give from ‘the part’ to the priests.

    Let us ask; the amount of חלה is minimal, the mitzvah of חלה is one of three that a woman teaches
    the world a fundamental of life, that being that all we have is a ברכה, blessing from Hashem. Its
    not me, it’s Hashem who gifted one’s ability and also allows one’s effort to be actualized
    successfully. If so, why would the Torah free us from the obligation and remove this life lesson
    from those outside Eretz Yisroel?

    Sensitivity! A person relentlessly diligently dedicates all their time and thought to produce a
    product. It’s their constant focus from morning to evening, always ensuring that all their work is
    done with complete responsibility, never slackening in their difficult labor. When the product is
    finally realized, it represents the total implacable, unflinching commitment and devotion. The
    Torah honors the person by recognizing their commitment to judiciously utilizing the talents
    given by Hashem. “Your crop is a manifestation of who you are, it’s difficult to share it with
    another, and it’s not correct to obligate you”

    That is כביכול, “the leadership of Hashem”. One always has to with honesty and effort, selflessly
    inquire, examine, absorb, and feel another’s emotional state and makeup. What applies to one,
    doesn’t apply to another. Rather, one has to reflect on every situation another is in, spending time
    and effort to truly comprehend what ones reaction should be- be it what to say! What to do!

  • Parshas Chukas-Balak

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    By Rabbi Shloimie Lindenbaum

    ויאמר ה’ אל משה אל תירא אותו (פרק כא פסוק לד)

    As the Jewish nation prepares for battle with Og and his nation, Bashan, Hashem encourages Moshe and tells him not to be afraid of them. Rashi explains (as expounded on by R’ Bachya) that Moshe certainly had no reason to fear any flesh and blood, after all, he had Hashem on his side. Rather, he was afraid that Og had a spiritual merit in his favor because many years earlier he had informed Avraham of Lot’s capture. In response Hashem was comforting Moshe that the merits of the Jews would outweigh that of Og’s. This, says R’ Bachya, is what Chazal mean when they say that Moshe struck Og at his ankle. He targeted the merit of Og’s steps that he took with his feet to inform Avraham. We can learn a tremendous lesson from here. Og did not have good intentions when informing Avraham of Lot’s capture, rather he wanted Avraham to go fight, get killed, and then Og would marry Sarah. Even so, his merit was enough to frighten Moshe many years later. We should not hesitate to perform mitzvos and learn Torah because of ulterior personal motives that we may have, rather we should do what Hashem wants of us and eventually we will grow into better people.

    קח את כל ראשי העם והוקע אותם לה’ נגד השמש וישב חרון אף ה'(פרק כה פסוק ד)

    After the Jews sinned with the Moabite women and the idol Peor, Hashem told Moshe that he should gather all the leaders to judge the sinners and have them hanged. The Gemara in Sanhedrin explains that really, they could have had one trial for all the people because it was regarding one sin but to abate Hashem’s anger (ישב חרון אף ה’) they had many trials with many judges. Rashi explains that through many people involving themselves in Hashem’s mitzva of judging and avenging His besmirched honor, Hashem’s wrath would subside. R’ Aharon Leib Shteinman deduces from here that there is a special סגולה when many Jews are involved in spreading the glory of Hashem. Even a job that could be done by a handful of people should preferably be done by many. This is a useful tool especially in times of trouble when there is a clear increase in Hashem’s anger. Through public involvement in mitzvos we can turn the tide.

  • Consistent Focus

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    By Rabbi Naftoly Bier

    בלעם, Bilaam, we are taught was gifted by Hashem with the extraordinary perception of the makeup of the spiritual world, of the upper spheres, a prophet on the same level as  משה רבינו, Moshe, our leader. The פסוק says that no prophet will arise akin to Moshe Rabeinu amongst the Jewish nation- but it infers that from the gentiles one will arise- who? Bilaam. We can’t imagine his exceptional phenomenal powers!

    But we can ask, how then is it possible for one who understands the makeups of Hashem could lead himself astray? Hashem repeatedly let him know of his displeasure concerning his involvement with Balak’s desire to join him. Finally, when he was travelling to join him, a remarkable miracle takes place. His donkey rebukes him for his terrible behavior. Nevertheless, he still feels he can convince Hashem to allow him to curse them, despite that due to his supreme prophetic power, he was aware that Hashem had not allowed Himself to become “angry”– to invoke the metaphysical domain of punishment.

    In Tractate Shabbos 153a it states; “Rav Eliezer taught ‘Repent one day before your death’. His students asked him “Does a person know the day on which he will die?’ He said to them ‘All the more so (this is good advice) one should repent today lest he die tomorrow, in this manner one will spend their whole life in a state of repentance!’” This is what שלמה המלך, King Solomon taught, “At all times your clothes should be white and oil shall not be absent from your head.” (קהלת ט,ח)

    Bilaam stated the opposite, “תמת נפשי מות ישרים ותהי אחריתי כמהו” (בלק כג,י)  “May I die the death of the upright, may my fate be like theirs” . Bilaam acutely recognized the achievements of those who followed the Torah, their selfless compassion even towards the nations of the world (Netziv). He expressed his desire to  1) gain that purity the last day of his life, 2) thereby gaining for him that after his death he would be embraced by Hashem.

    Unfortunately for him, he was not honestly cognizant of human nature. Rav Eliezer was demonstrating that the only viable way to develop a spiritual, selfless, honest living experience. One has to steadfastly, persistently, with resolution always perceive that one is standing on front of Hashem. The idea of the need to repent every day is exactly that; how can one not have remorse for their actions that are not appropriate? After all, Hashem is my benefactor, how can one act in a contrary manner?

    Bilaam was a manifestation of one who clearly knows what is expected and required but shoves it aside, by claiming that one can do what they want, and rectify all at the end.  “It’s my life, and it’s my desire to gain wealth, acclaim, and power. In this world its about me, in the next world it’s about G-d.”

    Balak was in some manner the opposite. The Torah starts off in Numbers: 22, 2 “And Balak son of Zippor saw all that Israel had done to the Amorites (They had defeated a most powerful nation). And Moav was alarmed… they dreaded the Israelites. And Moav said to the elders of Midian… They will lick clean all that is about us… And Balak the son of Zippor was the king of Moav at that time.”

    Why does the Torah wait till the third verse to relate to us that Balak was the king? It should state it in the first verse, when ‘introducing’ him. Rav Yerucham Levovitz זצ”ל explains that the Torah is teaching us the reason he was the king. Many times, one can witness a battle, war, or any event and walk away knowledgeable about the story and its conclusion. To actually take the time to analyze, perceive and with clarity understand the myriad of factors and causations of an event is time consuming and laborious.

    Balak investigated. He concluded that the Israelites are a nation that exists on a metaphysical plane, one where the laws of nature don’t govern, but rather they are under the guidance and governance of G-d. They left the world’s empire (Egypt), they were saved at the Reed Sea, G-d spoke to them and sustained them miraculously in the desert for forty years. Their king, Moshe Rabeinu is not a warrior, a five-star general, but rather a person gifted with the ability to converse with G-d and to beseech Him to protect His people. Therefore, he seeked a person who had the same gifted qualities in order to neutralize Moshe Rabeinu. Who? Bilaam, who was blessed by G-d to be the same. He even joined Bilaam in sacrificing seven bulls and seven rams s a means of connecting to Hashem, hoping to gain His providential assistance in defeating the Jewish nation.

    Yes, one can be fully understanding of G-d’s interaction with humanity. But it must be totally selfless; recognizing what Hashem demands and desires, not telling Him how to act!

    Bilaam said; “They are people that rises like a lioness, leaps like a lion, rests not till it has feasted on its prey and drank the blood of the slain.” (Number 23:24) The Netziv explains; why is the lion given the title, king of the animal kingdom? A lion is one that will never allow another animal to be superior to it. It will with ‘adrenalin’ force itself to raise itself beyond its natural strength and power to defeat or best another.

    In the same manner, Klal Yisrael will exert every effort to find superhuman strength to be on time to davening, learning or whatever; to declare what has to get done will have to be accomplished no matter all obstacles!

    That strength is a consequence of relentless, selfless obligation to engender what is beneficial to one and all, to facilitate that the ‘wishes’ of hashem are actualized. Hashem tells us ,“Open for me a small door, and I will open a palace door” Hashem’s desire has to take place, he just demands that one truly, selflessly desire it to become a reality.

  • Parshas Korach

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    By Rabbi Shloime Lindenbaum

    כי כל העדה כלם קדושים (פרק טז פסוק ג)
    Our Parsha begins with the legendary argument between Moshe and Korach. Korach claims that Moshe took too much honor for himself and that he isn’t driven by truth but rather by selfishness. Specifically, Korach argues that all Jews are holy and therefore how could Moshe elevate himself to a higher status. R’ Moshe Feinstein tells us that truthfully this logic was the source for Korach’s faulty views. Korach believed that because every Jew is holy, they should be able to determine for themselves how to properly follow the Torah. He felt that a person’s obligation to Hashem should only go as far as they can understand by themselves. R’ Moshe says that this is totally false. Everyone needs a rebbi, someone not just learned in Torah, but someone who received the Torah tradition from earlier generation as it was passed down from teacher to student. Without a clear מסורה, tradition, on what the Torah wants of us, each individual will definitely err. Many times, we find רשעים and heretics who base their opinions on פסוקים or words of חז”ל. The secret to discerning the true will of Hashem is by following the true Torah scholars who are continuing the age-old tradition of our Torah from Sinai.

    ויצא פרח ויצץ ציץ ויגמל שקדים (פרק יז פסוק כג)
    To prove that Hashem Himself chose Aharon as the Hight Priest, Moshe performs a test. He takes staffs that correspond to each tribe and their leader and places them in the משכן. The next day the staff of Levi and Aharon blossoms and almonds burst forth. Rashi says that Hashem specifically had almonds sprout because they grow the fastest of any fruit and this symbolizes that anyone who challenges the priesthood will be punished hastily. The Or Hachaim explains that the proof to Aharon’s position was through the miraculous growth of fruit. If so, it would have been a much bigger miracle if something that naturally requires a long time to grow, like carobs, had sprouted the next day. This is why Rashi explains that although it was a somewhat minimized miracle, Hashem chose almonds so that everyone internalizes that there is quick retribution for attacking the priesthood.

  • A Delicate Balance

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    By Rabbi Naftoly Bier

    Superficially it seems that Korach was a terrible person, a distinguished individual who envied Moshe Rabbeinu’s exalted status. How is it possible that someone who witnessed the miracles that Moshe Rabbeinu brought, experienced his selfless dedication and above all knew that the Almighty had chosen him to be His agent to transmit the Torah to Klal Yisroel, doubted the authenticity of his actions?

    HaRav Yeruchim Levovitz זצ”ל explains that initially Korach’s intentions were completely legitimate, totally selfless and solely dedicated to Hashem. Korach had a relentless, passionate quest, to attain the highest level of spiritual attachment to Hashem. He couldn’t fathom why his cousin, the son of the youngest of four brothers, should be chosen to be the “administrator” of the Levites, why wouldn’t he be given the opportunity to develop his spirituality through responsibility to Klal Yisroel? He then convinced the first-born males who originally were to be those who would serve in the Holy Temple (or Tabernacle) and the tribe of Reuvein to demand to be returned to their original significant status. The Ramban explains that they argued that everyone should be able to serve in the Tabernacle just as beforehand, everyone could bring a sacrifice on a במת יחיד, a personal altar.

    It began as an unequivocal pure desire to regain the ability to aspire, obligate, and challenge themselves for their greatest self development.

    But with all the sincere aspirations there is a hidden element that all humans have to contend with. Is it totally about Hashem’s world or is it even minimally about oneself? Am I upset that another has more stature than me? Is it due to one’s need for attention and acclaim? On the surface it seemed he was demanding equal opportunity for all, but משה רבינו revealed that his motivating factor was to be personally bestowed with “priesthood”, כהונה. This is Korach who the Arizal said will rise as a צדיק, a righteous tzaddik in the “end of days”, באחרית הימים. Korach’s intentions were pure! He sincerely believed that Moshe Rabeinu was Hashem’s chosen one. The “problem” was that one shouldn’t allow oneself to be overwhelmed with a selfish emotional drive, even if it is to attain complete negation of oneself to Hashem.

    The שפת אמת teaches us that the cause of קרח’s mistake was the lack of focus at that juncture of an elemental concept of Torah.

    In 16:11 the Torah states, “ואהרן מה הוא כי תלינו עליו… And what is Aharon that you rail against him?” The wording seems peculiar, it should just say why are you confronting Aharon; the expression “what is Aharon” is confusing.

    The שפת אמת explains that ultimately Korach enlisted all of Klal Yisroel with an argument that, (verse 3) “The entire congregation is holy and Hashem is in our midst, and why are you leading us?” “We are living at a time when we all witnessed מתן תורה, Hashem speaking to all of us, we are lovingly being taken care of by Hashem in the desert, we are studying Torah all day—each one of us is a קדוש, a person completely, unequivocally connected to Hashem. We have no aspiration other than to develop our spiritual potential. Let each and every one of us personally develop one’s relationship without interference from Moshe and Aharon!” Korach felt that Klal Yisroel were not being credited with their inherent greatness, that he could attain great heights through his responsibility of being an example to others.

    “ואהרן מה הוא”, Moshe Rabbeinu retorted, “You are missing the concept that all of Klal Yisroel is one unit, one נשמה, and every person has to dedicate, consecrate their unique talents to the community. Aharon, ‘what is he?’ — He is a person who has absolutely no self-interests, a humble, selfless being, whose every action is solely inspired by relentless altruism, not feeling the sense of “he”, but rather the “whole picture”.

    Those who are chosen to be leaders epitomize the consummate, selfless drive and desire to personally understand another’s potential and to enable them to actualize it. Moshe and Aharon were exemplars of this dynamic and were therefore chosen to be ones who would connect all of Klal Yisroel by enabling all to gift to the community their uniqueness, for they absorbed intellectually and emotionally every individual.

    Klal Yisroel needs one another and requires leaders. Our leaders are those who selflessly bind us together as one complete unit of an “infinite” amount of pieces, glued together to follow the dictates of Hashem as one נשמה, Neshoma, never taking credit for their magnanimous dedication. Rather, they thank Hashem for the opportunity to emulate His essence of חסד, chesed.

  • Parshas Shelach

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    By Rabbi Shoime Lindenbaum

    שלח לך אנשים ויתרו את ארץ כנען (פרק יג פסוק ב)
    Our Parsha begins with the מרגלים (spies) scouting out ארץ ישראל (Israel) before the Jews entered to conquer it. They came back with a terrible report about the land which resulted in the Jews’ losing faith that Hashem will give them the land and ended with the infamous decree that the Jews will stay in the desert for the next 40 years. Rashi tells us that this story comes immediately after the story of Miriam speaking לשון הרע (slander) about her brother because the מרגלים should have learned a lesson from her not to speak badly. Many ask that there is a big difference between Miriam’s sin and that of the מרגלים? She spoke badly about another person whereas they were speaking about a land. How should they have known to draw a parallel from her? R’ Aharon Leib Shteinman answers that the lesson to be learned from Miriam is that one should always view things in a positive way. When someone speaks לשון הרע it begins with them viewing others in a bad light. Only by focusing on the faults of others and highlighting the negatives can someone end up speaking לשון הרע. The מרגלים should have learned from Miriam how to stop the sin at it’s root by focusing only on the positive and then they never would have developed a negative report about ארץ ישראל.

    וימצאו איש מקושש עצים ביום השבת (פרק טו פסוק לב)
    Towards the end of the Parsha the Torah relates how someone desecrated Shabbos and afterwards was killed for it. Tosfos in מסכת בבא בתרא קיט: quotes a מדרש that he had totally pure intentions. The מדרש explains that after the Jews were informed that their generation would not enter ארץ ישראל they assumed that they were no longer obligated in the מצוות. To prove that the severity of the מצוות is still alive and well this individual violated Shabbos and got killed for it. The מהרש”א asks, how could he violate Shabbos just to prove that it still exists? He answers that we have a rule by Shabbos that one who does a מלאכה שאינה צריכה לגופה (Shabbos violation for a purpose other than the normally intended one) is פטור (exempt from punishment). Therefore, because the man did not intend to violate Shabbos for the regular purpose, but rather for the atypical purpose of proving it’s severity to the Jews, he was legally exempt from punishment. Although he was killed, that was because it’s impossible for a human court to ascertain his true intentions in the violation, but as far as his obligation to Hashem, he was exempt.

  • Gaining Constancy

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    By Rabbi Naftoly Bier

    Why does the Torah juxtapose the story of the מקושש, the person (צלפחד) who violated the Shabbos with the mitzvah of wearing ציצית; the requirement to place “strings” on any four cornered garment?

    The answer is, “that at that juncture of time, Moshe Rabeinu said to Hashem, ‘It states relevant to the mitzvah of Tefillin, למען תהיה תורת ה’ בפיך – wear the Tefillin in order that the Torah – it’s instructions will be an integral part of your everyday living and You commanded us not to wear them on Shabbos. If the violator had been ‘reminded’ with constancy of one’s need to follow Hashem, he would never have violated the Shabbos!” Hashem answered, “I will endow Klal Yisroel with a mitzvah which for all seven days of the week will provide the constant focus of adhering to all My commandments – it being the mitzvah of tzitzis.”

    Why wasn’t the day of Shabbos itself a reminder? They were aware of the metaphysical nature of Shabbos; the מן, manna, that descended on Friday, when brought into the home miraculously became two portions. On Shabbos we are gifted with the idea of the נשמה יתרה, a transcendence from the physical drive component of a person.

    Why did Hashem just command us that if one wears a four-cornered garment to place ציצית, tzitzis on it; if it has the metaphysical impact of inspiring one to “constantly” remember all the mitzvos of Hashem due to וראיתם אותו, by seeing it… and be saved from following one’s baser drives for fame, desires, and glory, קנאה, תאוה, וכבוד – then let it be obligatory for all to wear ציצית, tzitzis?

    The בעלי מוסר teach that there are two components; the intellectual idea and the ability, with clarity and exactitude to inculcate the core, quintessence as part of one’s emotional and intellectual essence. One can be defined as מוח (mind) and one as לב (heart). Very often one can intellectually perceive the consequences of one’s actions, thoughts, or words, but in practice they aren’t focused. At that moment one is lacking the indelible imprint of one’s perception.

    This idea is expressed in the verse, “רק השמר לך… Guard yourself exceedingly lest you forget the words your eyes witnessed [intellectual] and lest they are removed from ‘your heart’ – your mind, all the days of your life.” (דברים ד:ט)

    In chapter 8:14 ibid, it states, “And your pride increases and you forget Hashem who took you out from Egypt…” Intellectually, one is always aware of this; but one’s haughtiness at any given moment, one’s rationalization can obscure reality and allow one to feel comfortable to do what they desire.

    Even the greatest of people – ten of the twelve scouts sent by Moshe Rabbeinu, some who were greater than Yehoshua ben Nun, caused eternal damage to Klal Yisroel. How is it possible?
    At that juncture of history, they were blinded in a manner that they – even they – though intellectually understanding that Hashem could protect us, violated their essential perception and let themselves to be misguided.

    The antidote to this common human behavior is illustrated with the following episode. The Talmud Brachos 28b relates that when ר’ יוחנן בן זכאי was on his deathbed, his disciples asked him to bless them. He replied, “Let it be that your fear/awe of Hashem be commensurate to your fear of a human.”

    His students asked, “That’s all?”

    He replied, “It would be sufficient for one to say when they are about to do a misdeed, to exclaim, ‘Someone might see me!’”

    It takes tremendous effort to be focused at all times on the truths of life without any interruption or rationalization. On one hand, one can say that until the story of the מקושש, everyone was incredibly, unmitigatedly focused. The Torah then gave us a vehicle to use if needed not to lose this spiritual height – the tzitzis.

    Another approach could be that if one has to ensure that one’s intellectual appreciation doesn’t become habitual and loses its imprint on a person, then one has to constantly focus with renewed conviction; to create a design that is new and in turn captures one’s attention.

    Being that the ציצית is only required if one chooses to wear a four-cornered garment enables the person to perceive that one has dedicated oneself to constantly aspire for renewed emotional and intellectual clarity – יראת שמים, awe of Hashem’s benefaction at all times, in turn protecting oneself from מצוות ה’ מלומדה, that actions become robotic.

    One may ask, why then don’t women have the mitzvah of tzitzis?

    To quote Rav Shamshon Raphael Hirsch, Genesis 17:15:
    “She is Sarah, the moderating, tone-setting influence, who bears within her heart the most delicate feeling, the most sensitive measure for all that is right and good, all that is becoming and decent and holy. She applies to her own life this standard of justice and mo­rality, of true Divine decency; she knows what befits a man of purity at all times and in all circumstances; and with sensitive judgment she evaluates everything by this standard. Sarah does not need to become such a person; she already is one.

    A woman of purity, does not need an external sign of the covenant; on her own she remembers the covenant with קל שקי, Who sets limits and allots measure to all things. The warning די! resounds in her heart of its own accord, through the at­tribute of צניעות which pervades a Jewish woman of purity. She bears within her the tendency to subordinate herself to all pure and godly values, and she demands such submission from all who come in contact with her. Wherever a Sarah is wife and mother, vulgarity dares not show its face; she is the embodiment of purity and morality.”
    Yes, a woman by nature has an impregnable wall that surrounds her: if she protects it, she doesn’t need the protection of mitzvos.

    The Torah stresses, “וראיתם אותו, And you will see it” – for one has to always recognize anew what are our obligations. Consistency is the segue to constancy!

  • Parshas Behaaloscha

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    By Rabbi Shloime Lindenbaum

    למה נגרע לבלתי הקריב את קרבן ה’ במועדו (פרק ט פסוק ז)

    When the Jewish nation was preparing to bring the קרבן פסח in the desert, a group approached Moshe and explained that because they were טמא (impure) they weren’t allowed to participate. They felt this was unfair and asked, “Why should we lose out by not bringing the קרבן”? R’ Moshe Feinstein says that that even if a טמא person were to bring a קרבן פסח they would not fulfill the מצוה and the קרבן is invalid if it is brought solely for them. If so, why did they want to bring the קרבן? This wouldn’t result in fulfilling the מצוה? R’ Moshe answers that they loved the מצוה so much that they wanted to have some connection to it. Even though they knew that it was impossible for them to truly fulfill it, they were overcome with a desire to tap into the מצוה in some way. R’ Moshe learns from here that the same applies for us- even if it is difficult or impossible for us to fulfill a מצוה in it’s true form, out of our love for Hashem and His מצוות we should try to connect to it somehow.

    ויצאו שניהם (פרק יב פסוק ה)

    Hashem rebuked Miriam and Aharon for speaking negatively about Moshe and explained to them the various advantages and superiority that Moshe had over other נביאים (prophets). The פסוק tells us that Aharon and Miriam could not be standing with Moshe at the time that Hashem was praising him, and Rashi explains that this is because of the rule that we do not say all a person’s praises when they are present. R’ Yeruchem Levovitz deduces from here that the reason why we shouldn’t completely praise a person in front of them is not because this will cause the listener to become haughty. After all, Moshe was going to be aware of these praises regardless, when he wrote them in the תורה! Rather, it must be that we do not want it to look as though we are flattering the listener (חניפה). Although this doesn’t apply to Hashem, He did it in this way to teach us how we have to avoid appearing as though we are overly flattering someone else.