Day: August 25, 2023

  • Parshas Ki Seitzei

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    By Rabbi Shloimie Lindenbaum

    ובכתה את אביה ואת אמה ירח ימים (פרק כא פסוק יג)

    The Parsha begins with the story of the יפת תואר- the gentile woman that a man captured in war. The הלכה is that she must don ugly clothes and live in the man’s house for a month. There she cries about her family and only after that month may the man marry her. The אור החיים הקדוש explains the פסוקים in a way of דרוש that the woman referenced symbolizes the נשמה- the soul, and the month described is referring to the month of אלול. This month is the time in which we are to devote ourselves to תשובה, to returning to Hashem, and the פסוק is telling us the way to go about it. First one must “remove the clothing of when she was captured”- that is they must rid themselves of their old ways and עבירות. Additionally, they should “dwell in your house”- that is the special house of the Jews, the Shuls and בתי מדרש. We are then advised that “she should cry for her father and her mother”- referring to our Father in Heaven and the Jewish Nation, that we should cry for all the wrongs that we have committed to Hashem and our fellow man. After the תשובה process we have “acquired” our soul through our actions and now truly deserve our lofty “soul mate”.

    לא תראה את שור אחיך או את שיו נדחים וכו’ (פרק כב פסוק א)

    The Torah describes the מצוה of השבת אבידה that one may not see their friend’s animal and ignore it, rather they must return it. The Torah continues that if one is not close to the owner and does not know who they are, they must bring it into their house until the owner seeks it out. The חתם סופר reads the פסוק allegorically that if one sees their brother, a fellow Jew, “נדחים”, fallen away from Hashem, do not give up hope and ignore them. Rather, encourage them to return to Hashem and his Torah. The פסוק continues to say that even if they are not “close”- they have drifted so far that they seem to be at the lowest possible level, the point of no return, still bring them close and encourage them. Eventually they will “seek you out” and ask you to help them in returning to Hashem. The פסוק is reassuring us to never lose faith in another Jew and to realize that one can always do תשובה, and it is our obligation to encourage our “lost” friends in this way.

  • Teshuva: A Manifestation of One’s Inner Greatness

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    By Rabbi Naftoly Bier

    The month of אלול is an acronym for “אני לדודי ודודי לי”, “I am for my beloved and my beloved is for Me.” חז”ל are teaching us that it is a propitious time, that Hashem’s ‘fatherly’ connection to His children, כלל ישראל, can be acutely felt and experienced due to His relentless love of every member of the Jewish people.

    How significant is every single member of Klal Yisrael? What is one’s view of a wicked person? To answer this question, let’s learn the דרשות הר”ן דרוש י”א, the Droshos HaRan #11. The Torah instructs us to appoint judges in every community; they in turn appoint officers to ensure that all business and commerce be executed with pure integrity. At the same time, in Parshas Shoftim, we are instructed to appoint a king. How do we define the unique role of each one, or what is the “separation of powers”?

    The ר”ן explains that the role of the בית דין, the court system, is to ensure the eternal integrity, authenticity, ‘holiness’, of Hashem’s manual of living- the Torah. It is not about protecting the rights of individuals, but rather the utter, awesome responsibility to live every moment with pure, unadulterated commitment to assiduously and incessantly follow all the mitzvot of the Torah. In order to ensure that there is civility, and social harmony, a king was appointed.

    There are many mitzvos in the Torah which are definitively given to enable us to act in a manner which places one in the presence of Hashem, that we be embraced by Him, such as קרבנות, the offerings, and all that transpired in the בית המקדש, the Holy Temple. Another example is the חוקים, the commandments that are not reasonably understood, but obviously, they engender an ‘abundant impact’ from Hashem. That is the main focus and purpose of the ‘judicial system’; to make certain that the uniqueness of Klal Yisrael whose very experience transcends the normative lifestyle of the nations of the world, should be safeguarded.

    In שמות כ”א:כ”ג, Exodus 21:23, it states: “ונתת נפש תחת נפש” “… you must give a life for a life.” The Torah does not obligate the בית דין, the Jewish court to take revenge on the murderer, or to execute him as a deterrent. If so, it should have said ‘ולקחת’- you take the murderer’s life as a consequence of his actions.

    It rather states, ונתת: when one commits a murder, it desensitizes society to some degree to the value and dignity of human life, and a breach in the law, the Torah. In order to resensitize to any value lost, the Torah instructs us to “give and surrender” the criminal’s life for the sake of repairing the damage done.

    The theme of protecting the infinite value of human life is manifested by the Torah teaching us that even if the murderer caused an extensive monetary loss, either to the victim or to a third party while trying to murder- the courts are not allowed to render judgment on the monetary loss. The unparalleled dignity of human life which has been seriously damaged does not allow discussions of money. The בית דין, by not involving themselves in the monetary loss are ‘sending a message’ to all; billions of dollars are incomparable to human life! (For further elaboration, please see R’ Hirsch)

    The role of סנהדרין is to protect the infinite value of every member of Klal Yisroel all endowed by our creator with a נשמה, soul, which is חלק אלוקה ממעל, a ‘part of Hashem placed in one’. This idea validates a person, inspires one to do Hashem’s will, and empowers one to follow His ways despite hardships.

    The רמב”ן, Nachmanides teaches us a profound lesson regarding the aforementioned jurisdiction of the Sanhedrin and the Jewish court system. There are four cases where the ‘death penalty’ is to be carried out by the court in order to protect and insulate Klal Yisrael from actions that could cause great harm to our collective society. They are the 1) בן סורר ומורה- rebellious child, 2) זקן ממרא- the Torah scholar who publicly acts in a manner opposite to the court’s ruling, 3) עדים זוממין- witnesses who testified despite being in a different locale, that someone had done something wrong, and 4) מסית- a person who convinces others to perform idol worship, though he himself doesn’t.

    1) The rebellious child- a child of thirteen years who doesn’t respect his parents and doesn’t adhere to the מצוה of קדושים תהיו- to minimize one’s relentless drive for physical pleasures- two fundamentals of successful living- is put to death under definitive circumstances (though it never happened). It is solely done as a means of teaching the public the grave importance of following these mitzvos, principles always.

    2) The Torah scholar who due to his feeling that he is correct in his evaluation of what the Torah would rule in a certain case- if the majority rules the opposite, is put to death, despite his righteousness. For his actions will wreak havoc on other people’s adherence to follow the rulings of the Sanhedrin, the majority.

    3) False witnesses- עדים זוממין- are only punished if their testimony was disproved before the court has the ability to carry out the sentence. The Torah wants the court to send the message that integrity and decency are expected from every person.

    4) Despite the fact that the מסית- inciter- didn’t actually worship other gods, the fact that he tried to instigate others is punishable by death, to warn others not to be involved.

    Again, we are taught that the purpose of the בית דין is to protect and ensure the קדושה of Torah, the relentless adherence to all of Torah, by all of Klal Yisrael, even if it means to sacrifice a life. (Where there is a question of social harmony, civility, or safety, the kind has the obligation to ensure that is taken care of. If there is no king then the court takes upon themselves this role.)

    This idea of the role of the court system to protect the dignity and nobility is a lesson of how important every person is to Hashem- a reflection of אני לדודי ודודי לי, the love Hashem has for every person.